Stimulation of the G-spot can bring deep and intense orgasms that vary from other orgasms. These orgasms are triggered by applying rhythmical pressure to the G-spot. There are many ways to achieve this desired pressure and every woman is different.
When you stimulate the G-spot and surrounding area, it will begin to swell and become engorged making it easier to find and stimulate. Remember, some women will respond quicker to stimulation than others.
Firm, controlled pressure is needed to reach the G-spot in its non-stimulated state. It helps to get aroused first and then start stroking the G-spot area with a firm, continual touch, if you start to experience twinges of pleasurable contractions, keep going! As you begin to approach the point of orgasm there may be a ‘full-bladder’ feeling. This happens because of the prolonged intensity of the orgasm. Some women will expel a clear and/or whitish fluid during the G-spot orgasm. This fluid is not urine, simply a female ejaculatory fluid.
If you can’t find the G-spot on your first attempt don’t become discouraged, it could take a few attempts and trying different types of stimulation to find what feels best. Don’t obsess over finding the “magic spot”. You must relax physically and mentally and not become fixated on achieving a sexual goal such as finding the G-spot. Sexual exploration should be about enjoying the journey, not focusing on the destination.
Get Your Motor Going
The area around the G-spot becomes engorged with blood when aroused, so it is easier to find when you’re turned on. Try starting with clitoral and/or breast massage and work your way up to penetration and G-spot massage. Having a G-spot orgasm is more of a marathon than a sprint.
Get Comfortable and Feel Around
Sit or lay in a comfortable position. Place your palm face down on your vulva and slowly insert a finger inside your vagina. When you’re up to about the second knuckle you should feel a slightly bumpy or ’spongy’ area on the upper wall of the vagina. This is the G-spot area. The G-spot responds to pressure, so press down and pull forward using a “come hither” motion with your fingers.
Use a Toy
It can be awkward to stimulate the G-spot by hand, a G-spot toy can be a great helper in this. Most G-spot toys will have a curved tip, ideally with a flat head, that curves towards the G-spot. Apply some lubricant to your toy and insert it with the tip pointing up toward the top wall of your vagina. Work it in slowly and far enough so the tip is pressing against your G-spot.
Experiment with Pressure & Motion
Some women will find steady pressure against the G-spot most pleasurable, some women like the feeling vibration when a toy is pressing against the G-spot. In the beginning, use your toy as if you were trying to scratch an itch—don’t pull the toy all the way out, but use short strokes applying firm pressure, against the G-spot. A circular or back-and-forth motion may be best or even more vigorous motions.
You’ll know you’re hitting the spot as you feel tingly sensations and an overall elevation in your arousal. When you feel the urge to orgasm try to stimulate your clitoris while stroking your G-spot. For most women the “urge to pee” or full bladder feeling will precede the G-spot orgasm, this can be quite alarming at first and has probably led plenty of women to abandon the process, but if you stick with it you’ll be in for a pleasant surprise!
A Feeling of Fullness
The sensation of a ‘full’ vagina can be achieved by also stimulating the back wall of the vagina. This triggers the body to release more of a woman’s natural lubricant, sometimes in the form of female ejaculation. The new G-Vibe can help to create this feeling of fullness.
Try, Try Again!
It can take several practice sessions to find the G-spot. Try varying your position, using a different toy, experimenting with breathing and kegel exercises, or having a partner help you. There is also a great book by Violet Blue called “The Smart Girl’s Guide to the G-spot” that has many tips and pointers.
Finding the G-spot can take some time so don’t become discouraged if it takes some time, exploring this area is half the fun!